Someone has reflexively taken offense at something here. It's clear who and I think I see what, but I have to confess myself still mystified as to why.
All I've said is that women also act and that's also hard work. I didn't say it is the same job, only that it is no easier. Why does that bother you so?
Because no one was talking about the difficulty of the task except for you, and you chose to get indignant.
I didn't raise the subject: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44137282
Young men are adorable, but really I feel for you. What you really desperately need is a role model, the same way I did at your age. None is to be found here.