> Again, you can say these must be buggy, but here’s the thing — everything’s buggy. Including k8s. As long as bugs are understood and fixed, no one cares.

Agreed, but internal products are generally buggier, because an internal product is in a kind of monopoly position. You generally want to be using a product that is subject to competition, that is a profit center rather than a cost center for the people who are making it.

> Internal DNS in particular is easy enough to control and test if you have engineers (vs implementers) in your team.

Your team probably aren't DNS experts, and why should they be? You're not a DNS company. If you could make a better DNS - or a better DNS-deployment integration - than the pros, you'd be selling it. (The exception is if you really are a DNS company, either because you actually do sell it, or because you have some deep integration with DNS that enables your competitive advantage)

> Perhaps it comes from personal experience, in which case I’m sorry you had to be part of such a team. But it’s not particularly difficult to follow modern best practices and operate your own stack.

I'd say that's a contradiction in terms, because modern best practice is to not run your own stack.

I don't particularly like kubernetes qua kubernetes (indeed I'd generally pick nomad instead). But I absolutely do think you need a declarative, single-source-of-truth way of managing your full deployment, end-to-end. And if your deployment is made up of a standard load balancer (or an equivalent of one), a standard DNS, and prometheus or grafana, then you've either got one of these products or you've got an internal product that does the same thing, which is something I'm extremely skeptical of for the same reason as above - if your company was capable of creating a better solution to this standard problem, why wouldn't you be selling it? (And if an engineer was capable of creating a better solution to this standard problem, why would they work for you rather than one of the big cloud corps?)

In the same way I'm very skeptical of any company with an "internal cloud" - in my experience such a thing is usually a significantly worse implementation of AWS, and, yes, is usually held together with some flaky Perl scripts. Or an internal load balancer. It's generally NIH, or at best a cost-cutting exercise which tends to show; a company might have an internal cloud that's cheaper than AWS (I've worked for one), but you'll notice the cheapness.

Now again, if you really are gaining a competitive advantage from your things then it may make sense to not use a standard solution. But in that case you'll have something deeply integrated, i.e. monolithic, and that's precisely the case where you're not deploying separate standard DNS, separate standard load balancers, separate standard monitoring etc.. And in that case, as grandparent said, not using k8s makes total sense.

But if you're just deploying a standard Rails (or what have you) app with a standard database, load balancer, DNS, monitoring setup? Then 95% of the time your company can't solve that problem better than the companies that are dedicated to solving that problem. Either you don't have a solution at all (beyond doing it manually), you use k8s or similar, or you NIH it. Writing custom code to solve custom problems can be smart, but writing custom code to solve standard problems usually isn't.